What is the most regret in life

What is the most regret in life

有一家杂志曾对全国60岁以上的老人进行了这样一次问卷调查：你最后悔什么？列出了10项人们生活中容易后悔的事情，供被调查者进行选择。
在相关人员对收回的有效问卷进行统计之后，得出了这样的统计结果：

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第一名：75％的人后悔年轻时努力不够，导致一事无成。
所谓少壮不努力，老大徒伤悲，青春的大好时光总是流逝得那么快。而在青春岁月里，又常常碰到那么多的诱惑甚至陷阱，当你猛然醒悟时，也许华发早生，才发现自己竟然一事无成。
多数人都遵循着一种从众的生活态度，别人学习他也学习，别人工作他也工作，别人娱乐他也娱乐，自然的，别人得到什么，他也不可能得到更多。要想得到别人得不到的东西，就需要付出别人不愿意付出的代价，尤其是在你年轻的时候。所以，趁着你还有时间、有精力、有体力去努力的时候，赶快制定一个切实可行的计划吧，然后开始百折不挠地按照这个计划去一步步推进，你终究会获得成功。



第二名：70％的人后悔在年轻的时候选错了职业。
三个大学生被同时分配到某机关工作，一年后，其中一个由于不甘心整天看主管的脸色过日子而跳槽到另一家企业去了，另外两位没有动心，依旧安稳地过着朝九晚五的日子。又一年后，另外一个学生决定辞职下海，剩下那个依然没有动心，看着自己的两个同学在工厂和商海里拼搏，他甚至得意于自己的安稳生活。
若干年后，三人相聚，到企业去的那位同学早巳经成为一家工厂的厂长，下海的那位成了千万富翁，而留在机关的那位却依旧在领导的呵斥声中消磨着自己所剩无几的“大好时光”。
许多人在选择职业时考虑的第一因素就是稳定的收入和安稳舒适的生活，而不太愿意去面对那些具有挑战性的机会。没有了压力，自然就缺乏了动力，没有了动力，也就埋没了潜力。



第三名：62％的人后悔对子女教育不当。
孩子是自己生命的延续、希望的延续，许多人为了孩子可以倾尽所有，并忍受一切伤痛和委屈。但望子成龙、盼女成凤可能只是父母单方面的良好愿望，对于儿女而言，他们也许只是想做一个简单快乐的凡夫俗子。于是，许多父母采取了强制、监督甚至棍棒等方式来逼迫孩子按照自己设计的线路发展。可到最后，多数父母却不得不在面对现实时感到失望，只有极少数所谓的“成功者”例外，但他们却也在感叹孩子这些年过得太苦，丝毫没有享受到童年、少年应有的快乐与阳光。



第四名：57％的人后悔没有好好珍惜自己的伴侣。
醉过方知酒浓，爱过方知情重。感情方面的事情，永远是拥有时不懂得珍惜，失去后才知道珍贵。人类永远发明不出的两种药品，一是忘情水，二是后悔药。年轻的时候不去珍惜、体谅和理解，待到年老时，后悔已经来不及。



第五名：49％的人后悔没有善待自己的身体。
“身体是革命的本钱”，这句话永远都不会过时，许多人在60岁前用身体去换取一切，在60岁以后又用一切去换取身体的健康。世界上没有什么东西比自己的健康更加重要，没有一个好的身体，纵有千万家产又如何？



我们之所以羡慕年轻，是因为年轻的时候可以随时后悔、随时改进，而一旦步入老年，许多事情就无法改变了。所以，趁着年轻，就应该努力地学习、加倍地快乐，不要让自己到年老体衰的时候再去叹息万事成蹉跎。

英文版，用google翻译的：


There is a national magazine had people over the age of 60 had such a survey: What are you most regret? List of 10 people regret things in life is easy for respondents to choose.
Personnel in the relevant statistical questionnaires returned after the results obtained so:



First: 75% of young people to regret not enough, lead to nothing.
The so-called word spoken is past recalling, youthful good times always goes so fast. In the young years, they often encounter the temptation of so many traps and even, when you suddenly wake up, perhaps Huafa Early, only to find that he was nothing.
Most people follow a herd of life, attitude, learn from others he has also learned, he work at it, others that he has fun entertainment, nature, other people get what he can not get more. To get what others can not, you need to pay people not willing to pay, especially when you're young. So, taking advantage of you still have time, have the energy and strength to our efforts, quickly develop a practical plan it, then start dauntlessly line with this plan step by step forward, you will eventually succeed.



Second: 70% of people regret at the wrong time when the young professional.
Three students were also assigned to a particular organ, a year later, one of the managers as unwilling to see his face all day live and switched to another company, went to the other two do not be tempted, still secure in the nine-lived five days. After another year, another student decided to quit the sea, leaving the still not tempted, looking at his two students in factories and commercial sea fight, he even pride in their own security.
Several years later, the three together, the students who go to the company always already become a factory manager, who became a multimillionaire the sea, but who remain in the body but still the sound of the killing led scold with their running out of "good times."
Many people consider when choosing jobs first factor is the stability of income and secure a comfortable life, but not willing to face those challenging opportunities. No pressure, naturally lack the power, no power, also buried potential.



Third: 62% of people regret their children's education inappropriate.
Children are a continuation of his life, the continuation of hope, many people with children can be exhausting, and endure all the pain and resentment. But the expectations for their children, hope women into Phoenix may be just the good wishes of the parents unilaterally, for children, they may just want a simple happy mortal. As a result, many parents take a mandatory, supervision, and even children with sticks, etc. to force the development of their own design line. To the end, most parents have had to face the reality was disappointed when, only a handful of so-called "successful" exception, but they are also worried about their children flies too bitter all these years, did not enjoy his childhood, youth should be happiness and sunshine.



Fourth place: 57% of people regret not cherish their partner.
Zuiguo realized that alcohol concentration, loved parties informed re. Emotional side of it, always have the time do not cherish, lose it after precious. No human ever invented the two drugs, one Wang Qingshui, second, regret it later. A young man not to cherish, appreciate and understand, until old age, regret it was too late.



Fifth: 49% of people regret not having care of your body.
"Body is the capital of revolution", this sentence will never be out of date, many people before the age of 60 with the body in exchange for all, and later at the age of 60 by all in exchange for physical health. Nothing in the world than their own health is more important, without a good body, even though some 10 million fortune, how?



The reason why we envy the young, because when I was younger regret at any time, at any time to improve, and once into old age, many things can not be changed. So, while you're young, you should study hard, doubly happy, do not let their old and feeble to go back when sigh Nothing down, nothing.
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